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Your life is a sum reflection of your choices

My sister and I grew up in #Kharkov#Ukraine and we spend many summers at our grandmother’s farm.

Our grandfather was a survivor of World War II.

He was the youngest out of six children.

His brother was an army general in Moscow until he died from heart attack which was induced by chronic stress.

Our grandfather was always happy, who told that: “every day you wake up, it is a good day.”

Life in Ukraine was not easy.

We grew up in poverty in a 250 sq ft apartment with a family of five.

Our dad worked 18-hour days with very little pay.

In his early 30s, he was mugged and beaten at the subway in front of everyone and nobody came to help him.

At 35, he had a heart attack.

In his 40’s an opportunity came..

He was offered a job in the United States.

Even though our father didn’t speak English, didn’t know how to drive a car, had no savings, no money to his name, and was afraid that if he leaves us in Ukraine, he might never see us again, but he still ACTED in spike of fear.

Majority of people live their whole life in fear.

So, when opportunities show up, they CANNOT see them because they focus only on obstacles: “what if it doesn’t work out.” “it is too good to be true, no way it would work.”

But what if you were scared to come to a different country, you had no money, no savings, nothing, but your body, but because you decided to stay where it was familiar, it would have caused a much GREATER suffering for you and your family down the road.

𝐅𝐞𝐚𝐫 𝐢𝐬 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐦𝐨𝐬𝐭 𝐬𝐮𝐛𝐭𝐥𝐞 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐝𝐞𝐬𝐭𝐫𝐮𝐜𝐭𝐢𝐯𝐞 𝐨𝐟 𝐚𝐥𝐥 𝐡𝐮𝐦𝐚𝐧 𝐝𝐢𝐬𝐞𝐚𝐬𝐞𝐬.
𝐅𝐞𝐚𝐫 𝐤𝐢𝐥𝐥𝐬 𝐝𝐫𝐞𝐚𝐦𝐬.
𝐅𝐞𝐚𝐫 𝐤𝐢𝐥𝐥𝐬 𝐡𝐨𝐩𝐞.
𝐅𝐞𝐚𝐫 𝐩𝐮𝐭𝐬 𝐩𝐞𝐨𝐩𝐥𝐞 𝐢𝐧 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐡𝐨𝐬𝐩𝐢𝐭𝐚𝐥.
𝐅𝐞𝐚𝐫 𝐜𝐚𝐧 𝐚𝐠𝐞 𝐲𝐨𝐮.
𝐅𝐞𝐚𝐫 𝐜𝐚𝐧 𝐡𝐨𝐥𝐝 𝐲𝐨𝐮 𝐛𝐚𝐜𝐤 𝐟𝐫𝐨𝐦 𝐝𝐨𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐬𝐨𝐦𝐞𝐭𝐡𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐭𝐡𝐚𝐭 𝐲𝐨𝐮 𝐚𝐫𝐞 𝐤𝐧𝐨𝐰 𝐲𝐨𝐮 𝐜𝐚𝐧 𝐝𝐨.
𝐅𝐞𝐚𝐫 𝐰𝐢𝐥𝐥 𝐩𝐚𝐫𝐚𝐥𝐲𝐳𝐞 𝐲𝐨𝐮.

What is the benefit of allowing fear to hold you back and giving up on yourself?

Most fear can be solved with a bit of deliberate action.

BEING stuck can be circumstantial.

STAYING stuck is self-inflicted.

If it wasn’t for our father’s courage, we would never be here in United States.

At the end of the day:

Your life is a sum reflection of your choices.

Sometimes, our error is that we underestimate the power of little choices and overestimate how much time we have left to make them.

Don’t take for granted all the things the dead cannot do and wonder why you do not feel alive.

To learn is a gift.

To breath is a gift.

To struggle is a gift.

Repeat daily:
“I am grateful for control over my mind and my opportunities.”

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