The more bitter you are, the more unlucky you are

“God can do anything but the one thing He won’t move for you is a GRUDGE.”

Nothing will drag a person down like unforgiveness. Grudges. Anger. Bitterness…

In 2021 I talked to a 45-year-old woman who was diagnosed with rheumatoid arthritis.

Over several decades she worked with naturopathic doctors, functional doctors, nutritionists and was told to take tons of supplements that gave her terrible food sensitivities.

Her arthritis progressed and now she is bedridden, and her sister became her caregiver.

After being mistreated and misled, she doesn’t trust anyone anymore.

‼️Another woman I talked to invested $𝟴,𝟬𝟬𝟬 𝗳𝗼𝗿 𝗮 𝗳𝗮𝗺𝗼𝘂𝘀 𝗚𝗥𝗢𝗨𝗣 𝗽𝗿𝗼𝗴𝗿𝗮𝗺 where she did food sensitivity tests, IgG tests, hormonal tests, thyroid tests and based on those tests she was told to eliminate gluten, legumes, sugar and was given $80 – $100 worth of supplements to take such as collagen, MCT’s and drink lots of water.

This group program had 50 members in it and the doctor itself was not “patiently answering anything” and she was told to look at her write up.

She was in so much pain and it was discouraging to pay $8,000 for a GROUP program without any 1-1 help.

She didn’t get better and felt even more depressed.

I want to say this gently but I’m not sure how:

Some doctors don’t know what they are doing…‼️

If they did, they would be sharing testimonials every week of their clients becoming symptom free within DAYS.
If you want success, an irreplaceable piece of the equation will be PEOPLE.

And people come with mistakes.

I’ve made thousands of mistakes.

The people I get to do life with have made them.

You’ve made them.

We all make them and hopefully, learn from them.

Some mistakes create collateral damage and you will be tempted to take offense.

And carry that offense into new places and new experiences….

The problem is, carrying old offense into new place is HEAVY and will ruin new experiences and RELATIONSHIPS.

Not forgiving is like chaining yourself to old dirty things while the rest of the world moves on WITHOUT you.

Letting them go, forgiving them, and wishing nothing but the BEST for them releases the tie downs and lets YOU move on.

Here’s where it gets even more difficult but necessary: sometimes, the person you need to forgive, to bless, to let go and wish the best for — is YOU.

Don’t hold yourself hostage to old mistakes, experiences or behaviors.

Make things right where they need to be made right — but don’t leave yourself out of the process.

Unforgiveness towards yourself is still unforgiveness.

𝗜𝗳 𝘆𝗼𝘂 𝗰𝗼𝘂𝗹𝗱 𝗳𝗼𝗿𝗴𝗶𝘃𝗲 𝗼𝗻𝗲 𝗽𝗲𝗿𝘀𝗼𝗻 𝘄𝗵𝗼 𝗵𝘂𝗿𝘁 𝘆𝗼𝘂 𝗶𝗻 𝘁𝗵𝗲 𝗹𝗮𝘀𝘁 𝗱𝗲𝗰𝗮𝗱𝗲… 𝗪𝗿𝗶𝘁𝗲 𝘁𝗵𝗲𝗶𝗿 𝗻𝗮𝗺𝗲 𝗱𝗼𝘄𝗻 𝗮𝗻𝗱 𝗹𝗲𝘁 𝘁𝗵𝗲𝗺 𝗴𝗼 ..

𝗦𝘁𝗼𝗽 𝘁𝗮𝗹𝗸𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝗮𝗯𝗼𝘂𝘁 𝘁𝗵𝗲𝗺. 𝗧𝗵𝗶𝗻𝗸𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝗮𝗯𝗼𝘂𝘁 𝘁𝗵𝗲𝗺. 𝗗𝘄𝗲𝗹𝗹𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝗼𝗻 𝗵𝗼𝘄 “𝘂𝗻𝗳𝗮𝗶𝗿” 𝘁𝗵𝗶𝘀 𝗮𝗻𝗱 “𝘂𝗻𝗳𝗮𝗶𝗿” 𝘁𝗵𝗮𝘁.

𝗚𝗿𝘂𝗱𝗴𝗲𝘀 𝗵𝗼𝗹𝗱 𝗬𝗢𝗨 𝗯𝗮𝗰𝗸 𝗻𝗼𝘁 𝘁𝗵𝗲 𝗼𝘁𝗵𝗲𝗿 𝗽𝗲𝗿𝘀𝗼𝗻. 𝗗𝗼𝗻’𝘁 𝘁𝗮𝗸𝗲 𝗶𝘁 𝗶𝗻𝘁𝗼 𝘁𝗵𝗶𝘀 𝗻𝗲𝘄 𝟮𝟬𝟮𝟯 𝘆𝗲𝗮𝗿.

𝗚𝗼 𝗮𝗵𝗲𝗮𝗱 𝗮𝗻𝗱 𝗴𝗲𝘁 #𝗳𝗿𝗲𝗲 𝘀𝗼 𝘆𝗼𝘂 𝗰𝗮𝗻 𝗵𝗲𝗮𝗹.
🟣In addition:

If you invested into programs and it didn’t work – you are GOING to be okay.

If you want it badly enough, you can go again… and again… and again… and success will be inevitable.


‼️ Been burned?

Tuition – get better at due diligence.

‼️ Bad programs?

Tuition – ask for video testimonials and actually take the time to WATCH their videos.
I understand that some of us have been misled (as I have been too) – but if you run from every opportunity thereafter because of fear and anger you stay stuck forever.

If you DO NOTHING, spend nothing, and achieve nothing — it’ll be nobody else’s fault but your own.

And that’s 1,000x worse than trying and failing.

Remember: problems and obstacles are BLESSINGS, solve them with gratitude.🕊

You are not responsible for what happens to you, only what you do about it. Much of life’s failures are due to poor reaction – not bad luck. And final note: beware bitter people. A person’s victimhood can masquerade as indifference, or ego. But they are deeply hurt, and the more you are around them the more you will absorb it. Soon you will notice yourself being bothered…by everything. Perceiving everything as a slight or dig. Things that have nothing to do with you will suddenly seem worthy of your negative attention. And will ruin your momentum. The fix is realizing you’ve b been tainted by another person’s offense. Distance yourself at all costs. The more bitter you are, the more unlucky you are.

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