Francis of Assisi encouraged his listeners in this way: “First do what is necessary, then do what is possible, and before long you will find yourself doing the impossible.”
After all we cannot become our best selves without helping others to do the same. The two are inseparably intertwined. Keep reading to learn the six habits you need to adopt if you want to succeed in work and life.
“First do what is necessary, then do what is possible, and before long you will find yourself doing the impossible.” CLICK TO TWEET
1. SUCCESSFUL WOMEN GO AFTER THEIR DREAMS NOW, NOT LATER
Success isn’t always handed to us on a silver platter. As great as that would be, sometimes it doesn’t usually work that way. Even the most successful women didn’t get from point A to Z in one night, so why should we?
To achieve our goals, we have to put in the work necessary to reap the results. Whether you want to start your own business, get another degree, or grow a new passion, the time to begin is the here and now. The beginning is the most difficult part of the journey, so congratulate yourself for doing just that.
Right now is the best time in history to be a strong, successful, and professional woman.
2. SUCCESSFUL WOMEN HAVE A POSITIVE MINDSET
Every minute that we spend immersed in negativity is a minute that we could be using to better some element of our lives.
Dwelling in negative thinking is something that is easy to slip into when we face obstacles in our paths or when it takes longer than anticipated to achieve the desired result.
You aren’t alone in your struggles even though you may feel like you are singled out. Successful women also experience moments of uncertainty, frustration, and disappointment and aren’t immune to gloomy days, but they don’t allow themselves to sink into despair and let their inner critic take the front seat.
Instead, female leaders acknowledge their challenges and exemplify a positive, encouraging mindset instead. Why not be positive just for the heck of it?
3. SUCCESSFUL WOMEN GROW FROM THEIR MISTAKES
We all make mistakes, big and small. And there is nothing wrong with that human truth. As a matter of fact, mistakes fuel our wisdom and give us the chance to gauge what doesn’t serve us.
Through our mistakes, we truly understand what kind of life we want for ourselves. Instead of wallowing in shame, regret, and self-pity, successful women grow from their mistakes and appreciate them for what they are worth. They find treasure in the depths of their disappointments.
Don’t be afraid of failure, as your wrong turns may be the precursor you need before your biggest success catches up with you.
4. SUCCESSFUL WOMEN ACCEPT THEMSELVES FULLY
One of the biggest misconceptions is that we need to change ourselves in order to succeed. Sure, it is smart to find inspiration in others and apply newfound principles to our lives, but that doesn’t mean our true selves should be crushed in the process.
Successful women love to improve, adapt, and modify themselves in ways that best support their ambitions, but they do so without throwing themselves away.
You see, that is not what success is all about. In fact, you can still be yourself and find success. Besides, when there is only one of you in the entire world, why would you give yourself up to be someone else? The world needs more of you and your natural gifts.
5. SUCCESSFUL WOMEN MAKE PEACE WITH FEAR
Fear be a total buzz-kill, right?
This four letter word shouldn’t be underestimated, as it can stand between us and our success. We wouldn’t want that though, would we?
That’s why it is imperative that we make peace with a fear, just as successful women do.
Really successful women actually face their fears head on, not giving them the chance to stand in their way of triumph. Fear is a normal evolutionary mechanism that we humans have developed to keep us safe, but it is vital that we separate actual danger from a mentally constructed apprehension that isn’t a threat.
Together, let’s embrace our fears and accomplish what we set out to do despite their presence. Are you all with me?
6. SUCCESSFUL WOMEN SUPPORT ONE ANOTHER
I grew up in a society that encouraged fierce competitions, especially among women.
What I am learning now is other women are not our enemies. It takes a village, a tribe, and a sorority to sustain one another, to flourish and to become an accomplished adult.
So, successful women learn how to inspire other women around them, encouraging each other, crying, laughing, stumbling. Lifting each other up as a daily act, in your workplace, friendships, community, and life.
We are not interested in competing with anyone. We hope we all win.
Each day, consider your genuine expressions of joy for someone else’s accomplishments, an expression of wellness and balance within yourself.
Rooting for one another is a self-renewing resource-it grows the wellness within both giver and receiver!
"You got to keep the kind of people that make you feel as if you could achieve the impossible..at any give time.” - R.M. Drake
The world is full of 2 types of people: 1. Those that see opportunities and move swiftly to take advantage. 2. Those that see opportunities and sit around begging God for their lucky streak. If you’re tired of the ups, downs, lack of improvement or CONFUSED about what you need to do in order to move forward in your health or fitness – talk to us or enjoy being # 2 ;)
Viktoriya and Oksana Gruzdyn are Nutritionists and Immunotherapy Researchers based in Detroit, MI. They specialize in helping people reverse autoimmune and other chronic illnesses by optimizing their immune function and cellular repair.